They do here. Each time and check address before releasing package. And they do ask for ID with picture.
I tried to send my son ( not living with me ) to pick up a box and it was denied.
Possible the buyer IS the scammer ? He picked up the package and then make that story. If he got his ID stolen..they got more than just one card..did he fill a report to the cops for his stolen documents ? This sound fish shy.
Anyway it suck big time to get scammed.